Your Personal Relationship Coach

I was an expert in screwing up my relationships.
Now I’m an expert in building terrific relationships.

Personal experience + Research
= Expert in developing loving relationships.

I’ve been where you are. I know how painful it is and how easy it is to believe it’s hopeless and that there’s nothing you can do about your situation.

But this is simply not true.

Working with my own life coach enabled me to reach the other side and eventually meet and marry my wonderful husband, Dave when we were both 70.

This is what inspired me to become a personal relationship coach.

I have shared my experiences in my 5* rated books to help people improve their relationships with themselves and others.

But enough about me… I’m here for you!

If you’re struggling, talk with me. I have the experience and the tools to help you improve your life.

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Your Personal Relationship Coach

The life we live today is the result of the choices we made in the past.  The choices we make today will shape our life for years to come.

Tools & Resources

“I will provide you with the tools and resources that will enable you to make the right choices and build successful relationships.”
Sue Plumtree


Get to know, like and respect yourself. You will get to know yourself, like yourself and respect yourself.


Transform confusion and uncertainty into clarity, confidence and peace of mind. You will learn what to do next.


Finding and build  relationships that work for you. Nurture love that lasts.

Empower yourself…

As a personal relationship coach and multiple-published author on the subject, Sue has been featured on the BBC1, BBC Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour, in national newspapers 
The Telegraph and the Daily Mail, on Radio Tees, and much more… so, if you want to make a positive change in YOUR life, get in touch for a FREE initial 60-minute one-to-one conversation today.

Seize the day, with Sue!

Do you have the love you seek in your life? If not, are you ready to do something about it? You CAN create the strongest love you ever experienced! You will be supported every step of the way. All you need are the tools and know-how to help you get there. Learn how to empower yourself in relationship and finally get the love and connection you really want.

Download your FREE relationship-wellness ebooks here!

Grow Your Confidence And Fabulous Relationships Will Follow

In this book Sue takes you on a journey from learning how to build a strong relationship with yourself to how to build a wonderful relationship with your partner.

This journey is underpinned by 4 fundamental truths which will transform your current beliefs.

  1. Contrary to what is generally believed, love alone is not enough though it helps.
  2. You no longer have to settle for disappointing relationships – in love or friendship.
  3. You no longer have to suffer feelings of unworthiness and self-judgement.
  4. You no longer have to fall into the trap of choosing unsuitable partners because of fear of ending up alone.

Sue’s ‘7 secrets’ are benchmarks that will enable you to attract genuine friendships and true love.

Make Friends With Yourself

This book describes how you can learn how to make friends with yourself or, in other words , how to like and love yourself. 

Why does it matter?

It matters because when we like and trust ourselves, we’re able to develop equal relationship with others; we’re neither ‘less’ nor are we ‘more’.  It’s only when we make friends with ourselves that we can be a true friend to others.  Our relationship with ourselves shapes all our other relationships.

In this free e-book I introduce you to 10 principles I call ‘Sue Plumtree’s 10 Life Enhancing Principles’™.  These principles not only changed my own life but continue to change the lives of my clients as well.

The benefits of following them are both internal and external.

When you feel good about yourself, when you trust yourself, when you’re a true friend to yourself, when you know what you truly deserve, when you know what you really need and want – that’s when you’re finally able to make choices that work for you at all levels – practical, emotional, even spiritual.

Personal Relationship Coaching To Suit You

Choose from any of the 3 programmes listed here – click the box to find out more about each programme. You can also schedule a free introductory session with Sue to discuss tailoring your coaching to suit your specific requirements.



One-to-one coaching  (12 sessions over 6 months)

You have been struggling on your own far too long with poor confidence, self-doubts and limiting beliefs.  You’re fed up with your relationships.  You’re fed up with being taken for granted and feeling constantly stressed out and overwhelmed.

But imagine what it will be like when you discover what really works for you, what really matters to you and how you can make it happen.

It will enable you to

  • Develop inner confidence.

  • Figure out and express your true needs and wants.

  • Learn to make choices that really work for you.


The Love Programme is aimed at 2 categories of individuals:

  • Those whose who are currently single and are looking for a new relationship, and
  • Those who are currently in an unfulfilling relationship.

If you’re currently single you will learn:

  • What  it takes to love and be loved.
  • What kind of person you would like to share your life with.
  • How to recognise the right partner for you.
  • What it takes for you to feel loved.
  • What it takes for your partner to feel loved.

If you’re currently in an unfulfilling relationship you will learn:

  • What’s stopping you from truly loving and being loved.
  • What it takes to change another person.
  • How to communicate with your partner in such a way that they can hear you without becoming defensive.
  • How keeping your emotional engine topped up will improve your relationship.

This is a 12-session programme over 6 months. 

“I have gone from being a very unhappy person with nothing positive to say about myself and in a potentially difficult position at work – whereby it was being considered whether I had a future in the company, to a happy person in a new relationship and now considered to be in the top 25% of my peers.”  Lynn D.

Frequently asked questions

How are you different from other coaches?

Apart from coaching and other qualifications, my main difference is two-fold:

1. I’ve been coached myself for a long time so understand the process from personal experience.

2. I’ve been married a long time and mostly felt unloved, taken for granted and unimportant. I blamed my first husband for my unhappiness.

It was during a coaching session that I discovered the mistakes I made and how I contributed to my own unhappiness and the breakdown of my marriage.

My current marriage is the total opposite. We’re both happy and fulfilled.

I carried out extensive research into why marriages break down and what it takes for a relationship to flourish.

Will my life definitely change as a result of working with you?
The answer is, it can but it depends on the degree to which you’re willing to do what it takes to change your situation. My role is to guide you towards your dream.
How long will the coaching last?

This depends on the nature of the issue(s).

Some need more work than others. As a minimum I recommend 3 months but longer may be required.

There are two ways to find out what’s best for you.

It becomes clear when:
1. we have our free exploratory conversation,
2. something unexpected comes up during our coaching that stops you from achieving your dream.

Either way, we will both be clear rather than drift on and on.

Do you work weekends?
No, I keep my weekends for personal time.
How often do we meet?

We meet every two weeks. In between sessions I give homework to do.

How long does a session last?

Each session lasts between 1 and 1-1/2 hours. The duration depends on how much you can handle without feeling overwhelmed.

How does a coaching session work?

We start with you completing a Wheel of Life to establish how happy or dissatisfied you are with the various areas of your life. This acts as a baseline.

I send you a handout explaining the importance of keeping a journal, how to keep it and why.

During our sessions I will encourage you to talk about what you’ve experienced since we last talked. My role is to listen to you as you have never been listened to before, to point out your mixed messages to yourself, your limiting beliefs, your Gremlin or negative inner critic. I point out what you did that worked well and where you’re sabotaging yourself.

At all times I will be your champion and believe in you even when you forget to believe in yourself.

Where do you coach people?
I coach people all over the world via Zoom or Skype.

Connect with Sue today...

How would you like to feel loved, valued and appreciated?
How would you like to feel heard and understood?
How would you like to feel good about yourself and have others treat you with kindness and consideration?

I’m passionate about empowering others to grow successful relationships and lead happy lives.  If you’ve ever felt unloved, unimportant, taken for granted and lonely in your relationship then I know how painful it is.

I married young and stayed married for 37 years before, with the unstinting support of my life coach, I finally found the courage to leave my marriage when I was 60.

Ten years later I met and married the love of my life, and our relationship is everything I dreamed of.

I now know, with the benefit of my own experience and extensive research, what makes marriages suffer and what makes them blossom and last.

Best of all, you don’t have to be married as long as I did to find out how!

I have been featured on the BBC1 series ‘Holding Back The Years’, The Telegraph, Daily Mail and Radio Tees, and more… so, if you want to make a positive change in YOUR life, get in touch for a FREE initial 60-minute one-to-one conversation today.

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What my clients say…

“I can’t begin to say how you have transformed my life. I now have a new confidence and outlook which have totally changed my way of seeing myself and my life ahead. I never imagined in my wildest dreams that such a change was possible and I am, and always will be, eternally grateful to you.”  Marianne J. Lucas

“Having just finished working with you I’m looking back over our time together and the changes are awesome! My relationship with work colleagues, even my family and friends have been transformed! I used to see myself as a victim, blaming other people. Now I look within myself and I realised I’m responsible for me! That’s HUGE! I realise now that I’m in control of my life! I feel reborn!”  Penny L.

“Sue helped me realise my true potential in life as a step mum, wife and, of course, business woman. She seems to be able to unravel my mind and set me on clear paths to success of a different kind. Success for my family is very different from success for my business. She is tough. Sue does not allow you to hide in a corner; she challenges your deepest thoughts and she helps you find your purpose in life.”  Jane J.

Don’t wait any longer. Start discovering your own path today!