HOW TO CREATE A HAPPY LIFE AFTER DIVORCE
Being left after a long marriage when you believed you were happy together can feel like the worst betrayal and, when you finally sign the decree absolute, you may feel like a disaster survivor.
Your self-confidence will have been shattered and your self-image will have taken a beating.
The idea of creating the next stage of your life may feel like climbing Mount Everest. Totally impossible. You ‘know’ you will never be happy again.
This experience is not dissimilar to a bereavement, and grieving for what you lost is absolutely essential because that’s how you heal. You need to regroup and re-energize.
Believing that you will never be happy again is normal but, fact is, you will reach the point when you feel ready to move on.
There will come a time when you feel ready to look to the future with hope and optimism, and start to rebuild your life.
This may be a steep learning curve so don’t rush or force it. Be gentle and patient with yourself.
When you finally emerge on the other side, ready to live again, you will have changed. This means that you need to get to know yourself all over again.
Here are some questions you need to ask yourself:
- “What do I really need and want?”
- “What is really important to me?”
- “What is really true for me?”
Why is it so important for you to figure out what makes you tick?
It’s important because those are the things that will affect the choices you make, and this is how you shape your future: choice by choice by choice.
Today we live between 20 and 30 years longer than our great grandparents did. This is your chance to create a future that is meaningful and fulfilling. This is your chance to create relationships that are genuinely caring, warm-hearted, loving and generous.
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