So you finally allowed yourself to admit it – you’re not happy in your relationship. You can’t put your finger on what exactly is wrong but you feel the distance. You stopped talking to each other apart from the proverbial “please pass the salt”. You don’t really care about each other anymore.
You really don’t want to live like that any longer but how to start?
I have some good news for you – and I have some bad. Actually, the bad news has to come first.
First, you are the one who has to take the initiative but not the initiative you imagined I’d suggest.
It’s not about talking to your partner, at least not yet.
The starting point is to take a good look at yourself.
Reflect, what is the fear – yes, the fear?