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Dancing with The Mask: learning to love and be loved

My book ‘Dancing with the Mask: learning to love and be loved’ tracks how I re-created every aspect of my life with the help and support of Alan, the man who became my life coach.

He showed me that there was another way to live, an experience so profound I feel compelled to share it as widely as possible.

The price is £11.95 + POSTAGE. 

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Comments about my book

“Sue’s book really has made me stop and think so many times whilst reading it. Recognising personality traits within me and marvelling at how she has come through the dark, sad times in her life to be the person she is today. Her candid story telling of her life and the detailed analysis of it, will help so many people be able to reflect on their own situations. And learn from them.”

Jane S

“It is rare to read a book and feel you have been journeying more than turning the pages. “Dancing with the Mask” is such a journey. The author takes the reader through the darkest corners of her heart and connects the reader with her memories in a way where the distance between reader and author fades away to a point where the reader experiences the book as their own journey. An increadible read which makes us ask questions and find answers to our own journeys, however different they may be. The specifics become less important and one is left with this powerful sense of growth and self-discovery. I was left thinking of it as a long train journey: Sue provided the ticket to the train and the journey became mine. Poignant, straight from the heart and immensely powerful.”

Rhea Duttagupta

“I enjoyed the book very much. I think it is a brave and honest account of a life which could not have been easy; it is encouraging to readers to know that nothing is unsurmountable. Buy it, read it, and see for yourself the changes you too can make.”

Andrea J

“An honest and frank account of Sue’s life and the incredible journey she took to the wonderful place she is today.”

Lynne F

“Whilst reading Sue’s experiences I could often relate to many of the behaviours she exhibited as a way of coping and hiding behind the mask.”

Marianna G

“Having met Sue in person, I can only say how genuinely warm and positive she is as an individual. Sue’s book is a truly inspiring read.”

Gina L

“I was moved and enthralled by the book. I felt empowered to look at certain aspects of my own behaviour and relationships. I cried and I laughed, and found myself thinking about what I had read for days afterwards.”

Dinah L

“There was so much of myself that I recognised. It was as if someone had switched the light on and sighed “finally you see what you have been doing and it’s now time to stop.”

Yvonne B

“The book is absolutely fantastic although hard to read at times when I was witnessing the pain you went through. It is challenging because it is so open and honest.”

Dorcas M

“This book is extremely generous – open, honest and filled with treasures, signposts and delight. It touched my heart and inspired me. It shows what is possible and it shows how change can come about even in the most difficult situations.”

Jane L