I work with women who want to
create caring and loving relationships


DSCN0768I’ve always said that, one of the things that matters to me the most is walking the (more…)

You can’t teach an old dog new tricks

Posted by Sue Plumtree on November 28, 2016
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DSCN0767This last week has been an eye opener for me.  The funny thing is, I knew it all (more…)

Why keep promises you make to yourself

Posted by Sue Plumtree on November 21, 2016
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dreamstime_xs_22506591-300x225_002Another week, another disappointment.


For another way to be happy, read this

Posted by Sue Plumtree on November 14, 2016
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20150822_162644Last week I wrote that it takes courage to be happy and I mentioned (more…)

Do you have the courage to be happy?

Posted by Sue Plumtree on November 07, 2016
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DSCN0768It never occurred to me that being happy requires me to be courageous. (more…)

dreamstime_xs_66434659I’m in the middle of preparing a talk I will be delivering on Thursday, 17 (more…)

dreamstime_xs_66434659One of the things I noticed in my relationship with Paul is the double-edged (more…)

Can conflict clear the air?

Posted by Sue Plumtree on October 17, 2016
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dreamstime_xs_66434659As I was growing up, my parents drummed it into me how important it was (more…)

dreamstime_xs_66434659Everybody tells you that you have to really work at relationships to make them (more…)

Is he real or is he a fantasy?

Posted by Sue Plumtree on October 03, 2016
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 dreamstime_xs_66434659A couple of years after I’d left my marriage, I dipped my toes into the online (more…)

Do you know how to be happy?

Posted by Sue Plumtree on September 26, 2016
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 About 12 years ago, as I came to the end of a particular stage of my journey which involved leaving my marriage of 37 years and which ended when I moved into my new home, I remember sitting or, rather, DSCN0768flopping on my settee, totally exhausted and feeling a bit depressed. (more…)

DSCN0768This week I want to write about a really important subject:  how to be (more…)