How come you are who you are?

How come you are who you are?

Do you ever come across somebody and you think, “Wow! They’re so calm, so real, so wise!” I have many times. And I wonder, “how did you get here? How come you are who you are? As I’m blessed to have known some of them for a long time, I’m able to come to some...
If you really loved me, you’d know

If you really loved me, you’d know

Do you believe in the crystal ball school of communication? If you believe, “if you really loved me, you’d know” then I’m not surprised if you’re disappointed more often than not if you don’t get what you need or want. Worse, you’re...
Taking risks is the key to a happy life

Taking risks is the key to a happy life

First, a caveat: When I say that taking risks is the key to a happy life I mean considered risks, not rash or impulsive ones. Having said that, there are two types of risks – physical and emotional. Of the two, emotional risks are the ones that feel much scarier. But...