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It’s easy to know what you don’t want – but do you know what you do want?

And, once you knew what you did want, do you feel confident enough to go for it?

Do you believe that going for what really matters to you is selfish? 

Do you give in when others expect their own needs to be met? 

Do you tell yourself that your own needs and wants are less important than theirs?

Having your deepest needs and wants met, far from being selfish, is fundamental not only to your happiness but also to your physical, emotional and mental health and wellbeing.
A vital component of your emotional and physical health is confidence, the confidence to express yourself and your needs and wants truthfully, in a way that honours and respects both yourself and the person in front of you.
Can you imagine being that kind of person?
Do you believe this is too good to be true?

I’m Sue and my passion is to support you become more confident and better able to express what is true for you – without guilt.

And it is also my passion to show you the way to stronger and more caring relationships – with the skills, understandings, tools and resources to make it happen.

To find out how this works, click on the button below.

What People Say About Me

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Love is a big word


It’s not only about our love for others, romantic or otherwise but, most of all, it’s about our love for ourselves. More than that, it’s about self-respect.


Because our relationship with ourselves forms the foundation of all our other relationships.

Because, whether we love ourselves or not, whether we respect ourselves or not, whether we trust ourselves or not, it subconsciously determines how other people relate to us. Carelessly, thoughtlessly, casually, critically – or thoughtfully, with consideration, love and, yes, respect – however long that relationship. People take us at our own valuation.

My learning path


I have lived a life rich in joy and pain, disappointments and triumphs, failures and victories. I have suffered, as I’m sure you too have suffered or, perhaps, are still suffering.

In the many years since I left my marriage aged nearly 60, I went on to create a life filled with love, happiness and meaning.

Best of all, only months after I turned 70, I met Paul, a most wonderful man who turned out to be my soulmate, my lover, my friend, my partner.

I soon discovered that meeting somebody wonderful is the easy part. The challenge is how to maintain that relationship.

Thanks to the barren 37 years of my marriage I learned what does not work in a relationship, and how my loneliness and unhappiness significantly affected my health.

Today, being with Paul showed me how to build a relationship that is strong and loving; a relationship that lasts.

And what is amazing, is that I have never felt better, that I’m healthier than I’ve ever been!

And I’m in no way unique.

Research shows that our health and our happiness are closely linked.

That’s what makes me uniquely qualified to show you how to build both strong and loving relationships – as an individual and as a couple – and a vibrant state of being.

If you’re ready to embrace happiness, then book a FREE call with me below.

Together we can create the life and relationships you deserve.

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