My passion is relationships – understanding what makes them joyful, what makes them painful, what creates emotional intimacy and what creates distance.
I work mainly with women over 50, enabling them to build strong and loving relationships – first with themselves and then with others. That’s because your relationship with yourself shapes all your other relationships.
Love is a big word
It’s not only about our love for others, romantic or otherwise but, most of all, it’s about our love for ourselves. More than that, it’s about self-respect.
Because our relationship with ourselves forms the foundation of all our other relationships.
Because whether we love ourselves or not, whether we respect ourselves or not, whether we trust ourselves or not, it subconsciously determines how other people relate to us. Carelessly, thoughtlessly, casually – or thoughtfully, with consideration, love and, yes, respect – however long that relationship. People take us at our own valuation.
My learning path
I have lived a life rich in joy and pain, disappointments and triumphs, failures and victories. I have suffered, as I’m sure you too have suffered or, perhaps, are still suffering.
In the many years since I left my marriage aged 60, I went on to create a life filled with love, happiness and meaning.
Best of all, only months after I turned 70, I met the most wonderful man who turned out to be my soulmate, my lover, my friend.
I soon discovered that meeting somebody wonderful is the easy part. The challenge is how to maintain that relationship.
Thanks to the barren 37 years of my marriage I learned what does not work in a relationship. Better still, I now know what it takes to build a relationship that is strong and loving; a relationship that lasts.
That’s what makes me uniquely qualified to show you how to build relationships where you finally feel loved, valued and appreciated.
If you’re ready to embrace happiness, then contact me. Together we can create the life and relationships you deserve.