I am Sue.
Have you ever dreamed of getting married and living happily ever after?
Perhaps this is not how it turned out for you?
Perhaps you’re reading this because you’ve forgotten what it feels like to be loved, maybe you’re reading this because you feel that you give and give and give but get very little back which means that you feel taken for granted. Possibly you’re reading this because you feel unheard and unappreciated which means that you feel unworthy of being loved. Or worse, you’re reading this because perhaps your husband has had affairs which means that you feel betrayed and that you can’t trust him anymore.
How does reading this make you feel? Hurt? Resigned? Hopeless? That there’s nothing you can do about it? That, even if you did try to do something, it would only make things worse?
Hold on! There’s something missing! Do you have any idea what that might be?
Where’s the anger!?! Where’s the feeling “That’s it! I’m not doing this anymore! I deserve better! I deserve to be happy!”
Anger is a powerful emotion. It says out loud “Sod this! I’m out of here!”, or “Sod this, I’m not taking this anymore! I’m going to do what it takes to rekindle the love we used to have!”
No other emotion will do this for you.
Imagining what you feel like having rekindled the romance in your relationship. Imagining how special you’re feeling, how cherished – yes, it feels lovely to imagine it; it even gives you hope but, unless you pull your finger out and do something about it, nothing will change and your fantasies will remain just that – fantasies.
So, if you hate feeling unloved, taken for granted and unimportant when what you really want is to feel special, cherished and valued – isn’t it obvious that what you’re doing isn’t working for you?
Isn’t it clear to you that, what you really need, is to do something different – something that you can’t do on your own because, right now, you don’t know what that ‘different’ is?
My passion is relationships – understanding what makes them joyful, what makes them painful, what creates intimacy, what creates distance and, especially, how to build the love you long for.
I typically work with women who have forgotten what it feels like to be loved – as I did for so many years – women who want to rekindle the romance in their relationship, and feel special, cherished and desired, as I do now.
I work with women who have finally woken up to the fact that they deserve better and are willing to do what it takes to make it happen – with my help.
I started my journey when I turned 56. That’s when I met my life coach and my life was never the same again. He stood by me every step of the way, holding my vision of the kind of life I wanted to live, the kind of person I wanted to be and the kind of relationship I wanted to have.
I have lived a life rich in joy and pain, disappointments and triumphs, failures and victories. I have suffered as I’m sure you too have suffered or are still suffering.
In the 12 years since I left my marriage aged 60, I went on to create a life filled with love, happiness and meaning. Best of all, only months after I turned 70, I met the most wonderful man who turned out to be my soulmate.
I soon discovered that meeting somebody wonderful is the easy part. The challenge is how to maintain that relationship.
Even better, I know how I’m doing that. I know how to re-build a relationship that has gone stale and I know how to re-build your self-confidence and your self-esteem so that you can stand up and say “I deserve better! I deserve to be happy!”
That’s what makes me uniquely qualified to empower you to transform and build relationships where you finally feel loved, valued and appreciated.
So, are you angry enough to do something about it or are you still resigned? If you’re angry enough, then get in touch with me. Otherwise, stay where you are, sad and hopeless and resigned. It’s your life, it’s your choice.
What was it like working with a life coach?
There are those who need a helping hand for a time, as I did. I know that I wouldn’t have been able to create this life without the unstinting support and encouragement of my own life coach. I had never before experienced a relationship like the one I had with him.
For the first time I felt truly heard and understood. I was able to tell him about my frustrations, resentments and fears. I would continually blame others, especially my ex-husband, for my unhappiness and dissatisfaction, yet he never wavered. He challenged me, held up the metaphorical mirror so that, for the first time, I started to see the role I played in the creation of the life I insisted I did not want.
“Sue, your gentle guidance liberated me to embark on the greatest years of my life so far (I’m 63) and to find renewed joy in living which is priceless and the greatest gift you could have given me. No amount of money would be enough to pay for what your skills have brought about, Sue.”
When you click on this button, you will receive my free video, a taster of the first of my 4-module system – ‘The Ultimate Conscious Loving Formula’.
In it you will discover how changing YOUR mindset will transform your relationship even though it’s not really you who’s causing theproblem.
To begin with, before you can make any changes to your life and your relationship, you will need to become aware of the habits and patterns you’ve developed over a lifetime, the ones you keep repeating, over and over again, making you behave in ways that not only don’t work but actually make things worse.
I will help you figure out the mindset that you brought into your relationship that keeps you both unhappy.
And, I will show you how to change that mindset around so you can start transformingyour relationship.
The complete system will enable you to rekindle the romance in your relationship so that you feel special, cherished and fancied.
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